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Knowing Yourself – The Start of Your Success Journey

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I believe that success starts with knowing yourself–and defining your version of the word.  When we begin tapping into our authentic selves, we start to uncover what is unique to us. We begin to notice where we have deviated or fallen away from the path that is of our own design. And while perhaps different than what is expected, our idea of success–and our experience of it–is enhanced by our self-knowledge. When you step into knowing yourself, it is the beginning of the journey to owning and embracing your authentic self–and what you are capable of. This knowing is a huge key to capitalizing on positive contributions and appreciating what you can do for others. But knowing, owning, and embracing our authentic selves can be a challenge. There are barriers like competing expectations from within and externally. There are rules we have for others and ourselves about how we are supposed to show up. And some of us don’t want to do the work of self-reflection and discovery. Even for those interested in this process, life seems to have no pause button – when is there time to look inward, to ask the important questions? When we believe in the impact these efforts can have, we carve out the time to do it.  For starters, we are much better equipped to succeed when we operate from a place of knowing what’s important to us and what our natural talents are. A major turning point in life can start us on this path to knowing ourselves–and wanting more for ourselves. It may be an upheaval like a divorce, a layoff, or a health issue that propels us to reexamine what we’re doing in our lives. For me, it started with my cancer success story (which I spoke about on May 22; see video below) But major life changes are not the only reason to evaluate ourselves or “dream bigger.”  Many people simply acknowledge that they can raise the bar on their successes during the course of everyday life. And entrepreneurial-minded leaders understand the necessity of leading themselves in this way. They just need some clarity around what direction to take. This is also where looking inward and knowing yourself can provide the answers–and the necessary actions–for greater success. There are two steps that are important to this knowing – Knowing what you want. The ability to evaluate opportunities and situations using your own unique criteria is critical to living authentically and moving in the direction of your success. This is done by identifying what I call your “Top 3” criteria for making decisions–or your litmus test. I offer a way to achieve this in a 15-minute call named the Better Decision Making JumpStart. Knowing what you do well. There are many ways to uncover this. My preferred tool is StrengthsFinder because it can show you what your natural abilities are. Then, by strategically applying (and appreciating!) your talents, they become strengths. I love working with entrepreneurial-minded leaders to help them fully leverage their talents, hone and execute on their ideas, and overcome the challenges they face. I typically do this with a Creative Partnering(TM) Engagement, which can be informed by the StrengthsFinder results. The intersection of what you want and what you do well is a powerful place. And it is a good foundational start to knowing your authentic self. As mentioned, I began my...

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Finding Your Strengths: My Journey and Purpose

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Today I am in San Francisco for the first day of the Gallup Successful Strengths Coaching Program and it is the last day of #30DaysofQ2. (Confession: I am late in posting but I drafted this on Day 30.) Looking Inward and Finding Your Strengths It’s not often we spend the time to take stock and find our strengths. But they can tell us so much . . . especially when clarity, inspiration, or change seem like distant planets. That’s why I decided to take this journey. So many friends, would-be entrepreneurs, and current business owners can benefit from knowing themselves authentically, and aligning their jobs, brands, service offerings, and lives accordingly. By bringing strengths into focus, I can help entrepreneurial-minded leaders bring about a clearer vision of where they need to go, gain more momentum to get there, and amass the courage to make the changes required to do so. I’m excited to use the knowledge I gained to fulfill my promise to Creative Partnering(TM) Engagement clients: I create a safe space for you to be and discover yourself, to practice embracing and LOVING your strengths, and being inspired to ACT and LEAD with strengths while sharing your newfound discoveries with others so that we may all better understand one another.  Does using YOUR strengths to find your direction, create more clarity, gain much-needed focus, or bring a big idea to life appeal to you? Become a Strengths Enthusiast to learn more or contact me to see if creative partnering using strengths as a tool is for you. (NOTE: Updated May 2018 to reflect how my training is being put to use...

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Building an Authentic Business as a Solopreneur

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  As a one-person business, it can be challenging to define your brand if you haven’t tapped into your strengths, your purpose, your ideal clients, and your value proposition. Even if you did this foundational work in the beginning, if any one of these is “off” or changes, it can be hard to achieve alignment as an authentic business. Being aware of the shifts–whether they are within you or in the market–is continual work that is important but not urgent. Most of us are complex. Shaping our complexities into the right offerings (aka productizing our services) and an authentic and consistent brand is difficult to do on our own. We don’t always acknowledge or embrace our strengths and passions. We might have doubts around using everything we can potentially bring to the table. Plus, we have blind spots and distractions. We have to contend with confirmation bias. And finally we have limiting beliefs. In addition to being complex, we are providing value to complex people. We need to identify our ideal clients, understand them deeply, align our skills with their needs, and create messages that attract these people. Most often, solopreneurs or solo service providers (and sometimes even microbusiness or small business owners) feel like they must do all of this on their own! In doing so, they could miss the mark on any one of these outcomes. And in my experience, when solopreneurs are not seeing the results they expect, they don’t always solve the right problem. For example, people will say, “I need to market my business better,” “I need to get my Facebook handled,” or “We need new graphics on our website,” and the list continues.  In many cases, they are assuming promotion is the answer. And throwing money at a solution before undertaking rigorous problem identification is a huge waste. Something I’m 100% against. I want to find the true problem–especially if it is foundational–and solve that. Sometimes solo service providers aren’t even aware that they need to revisit their foundations, but that’s a good first exploratory point in any marketing conversation. In 2013, I had a client come to me with totally different perceived (and mostly tactical) marketing needs. She was feeling the pressure of time-consuming marketing tasks (such as social media) and wanted to off-load them. Through careful, consultative questioning in our kick-off session, I uncovered an untapped opportunity to apply a particular skill set to the business. This is much more strategic and valuable than silly task outsourcing! The good news? A whole new revenue stream would open up for her and bring her closer to the goal of serving 10 individual clients a month. Plus, adding this new service offering led to company re-branding, including a new, more inclusive company name to capture more of the market. Doesn’t that sound better (and more impactful to your bottom line) than having new graphics or social media content? Knowing your authentic purpose, strengths, and values as well as identifying your ideal clients is key to creating and establishing a rock-solid marketing foundation from which to build your business. Knowing what your authentic business is and your entrepreneurial vision provides clarity and direction. What steps have you taken towards this? Who’s been instrumental in helping you with this? Let us know in the comments!...

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Gaining Client Insight

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If you are a coach or a consultant–and especially if you have “productized” your solution by creating a program or are looking into doing so–you want to see success in your clients’ development and in your relationships. But sometimes, unless clients blatantly express dissatisfaction during our engagements or begin “bad appling,” we can’t really be sure what their satisfaction level is. And we know this impacts our ability to be referred. When clients are dissatisfied with their experiences or their expectations are violated, our value in the marketplace is diminished. Signs that we might be losing ground include: attrition, low success rates, no client action on up-sell or cross-sell options, our own frustration with the direction our clients are going (or not going, because they’re not making change), more prospects balking at price, and of course, fewer referrals–either over time or by percentage of clients who work with us. Too often, solo service providers and business owners will try to treat their symptoms with a perceived panacea (usually tactical), but without a complete analysis and proper diagnosis. This is unfortunate because all of the aforementioned signs might also point to a number of “diagnoses,” including but not limited to: Shifts in the marketplace New alternatives Attracting the wrong clients in the first place Lack of brand value Brand messaging that doesn’t resonate Communications issues Lack of change on our parts to make our vision a reality If you can’t be sure you have the right diagnosis, it’s a good time for us to talk. Before you waste money and time on efforts that will not work–or will only work temporarily. If you suspect client dissatisfaction is the problem, gaining client insight is one important first-step activity. But it must be done expertly and by a third-party to get the unbiased, REAL answers. Painful as they might be, this knowledge points us in the direction of improvement. It gives us the answers we need to increase our repeat business, stave off attrition, eliminate “bad appling” by clients or participants, and ultimately to be part of their success while being appropriately compensated for it! Gaining client insight–or even diagnosing the correct problem–is an important but sometimes not urgent activity. That’s why it’s the #30DaysofQ2 challenge subject for Day...

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What Do You Want? Developing Your Litmus Test for Better Decisions

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How Do We Make Better Decisions? If we take the time to identify what we want, at the BIG PICTURE level, making decisions becomes easy. When we know OUR own pH, everything that comes our way can be tested against it. If it doesn’t match, we can politely walk away. I imagine we waste a lot of time in decision-making. And maybe that comes from not having “top-level criteria.” What do I mean by top-level criteria? Your 3 most important things. Three things that MUST be present for you in your life or business. When you know these, everything becomes a lot clearer. And they are unique to YOU. For example, I will only do things that make me feel happy, successful, and appreciated. That’s MY litmus test. (Everyone’s is different.) A new opportunity, a prospective client, an event, a volunteer position–anything that comes my way–is tested against the probability for meeting each and all 3 of those criteria. They are REQUIRED. And if my initial reading changes or if I perceive it to change, my involvement can change too. Can you see how this knowledge takes the guesswork out of decisions? How it brings clarity to what I am supposed to be doing? How I can use those 3 criteria to re-focus myself and get myself back on track should I veer away? I hope so! And I hope you are inspired to find your “top-level criteria.” Have you taken the time to identify YOUR 3 things?  It’s one of the best time investments you will make and guess what? I can help you to achieve this in only 15 minutes. Sign me up! Feedback . . . “This was exactly what it said – a jumpstart! Thank you! . . . Good questions can help get to the heart of a matter quicker and more efficiently. I really enjoyed the call, you, your energy, and the very focused, targeted questions you asked to efficiently and effectively get to the top 3 in just 15 minutes. This was a helpful call. Much appreciated!”   “GREAT SESSION!!! I am super motivated. I love that I’m held accountable for the process to myself and you.” “Tracy, this was such a great start. It’s SUPER helpful in keeping me grounded & looking at the decisions I’m making moving...

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Try Something New

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We’ve all heard the Einstein-attributed definition of insanity. And yet sometimes when we make change and try something new, we might seem insane to others–or at least incomprehensible. Some might be scratching their heads because they don’t understand us. That’s OK. (If you are scratching your head, read this.) The good news is if we have cultivated relationships–deep, caring ones–we will have support and freedom to change without judgment. And even if we are not understood. Judgment is one of the things that keeps us small. When we do it to others. When we do it to ourselves. And it really stops us from making change AND connecting with others.  That’s why I created the (now discontinued) Certified Authentic Networker (CAN) program. Those of us who have been working on reducing judgment (I’m looking at you, CAN alumni!) are probably getting better (different!) results from our networking activities. Anyone who isn’t even aware that judgment might be a liability in their networking approach can benefit from trying something new–joining our ranks as re-imaginers of networking. Join us on April 21 to achieve better networking experiences through deeper connections and relationships–or to ensure you’re getting MORE of those from your efforts. (Update: The spirit of how we approach networking is live and well, even though we do not have this offering. If you wish to connect with us authentically, please do so here.) (This is Day 27 of...

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Uncovering Expectations, Not Just Managing Expectations

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It seems everyone talks about managing expectations but it’s just as important to do the work of uncovering them. I say “uncovering” because sometimes they can be buried. Even from the people who have them. And ourselves. Too often, service providers will assume what the expectations are and cater to those assumptions. In fairness, sometimes these are experience-based and built over time from client engagements, but let’s keep in mind: Clients are not clones. As consultants and service providers, we have to do a little detective work to understand individual clients’ unique needs. The good news is we are used to asking good questions, right? We need to design questions that will extract what people expect from us when providing our services. Especially where they differ from other clients’, partners’, or our own expectations of ourselves and our clients and partners. How is that experience matching or out of alignment with a client’s ideas? (This is also useful for strategic marketing communications efforts.) If you are new to business, you might might begin with making a list of all the things that can go wrong. But, since you don’t know what you don’t know, talking with fellow consultants in other sectors is a great way to be prepared. (If you are in Phoenix, contact me to be a part of a group who can help you.) Some common things to focus on might be expected turnaround times for email response times for anything really. Also what will be the path if there is no response or repeated your responsiveness lack of their of or if meetings are missed lack of respect with respect to someone else’s time. It’s important I guess not only to say what will happen if these things happen but to say hey here’s what is OK and what is not. Oftentimes professionally we do not do this from a personal level and I think it makes all the difference. I talk a lot about authenticity and I think this is a great point of intersection between the personal and professional which I don’t separate out anyway. Whether you are new or seasoned, after uncovering expectations, you might want to address the communications around that. In other words, “How should we respond if an expectation–expressed or unexpressed on either side–has been violated?” Note that I said “on either side” because you as the service provider are allowed to expect and hold accountable as well. This is a two-way street! (Also helpful for establishing strategic partnerships.) Getting in touch with ourselves and expressing that in terms of expectations is for the benefit of the relationships and is a proactive stance to ensure success. That’s why it’s the #30DaysofQ2 Challenge for Day 26. Is there a way or technique that you found to proactively uncover what you need to do to meet expectations the first time versus manage them on the back end once there has been a...

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Practicing Learned Inspiration

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I am the first to admit–I’m not always able to see myself with pride and compassion. I suspect we all waiver at times, no matter how much we love ourselves. My theory is “this is constant work.” But that’s also a concept I grapple with. Why does this have to be so much work? Why am I not just perfect as is? How come I found yet another flaw to work on today? This line of questioning is NOT productive. It is NOT healthy. And so I am learning how to “undo” it. I am learning what to do and teaching it at the same time in order to inspire myself and others. Oftentimes, this feeling of lack, of imperfection, of self-doubt arises when we’re in comparison mode. We look at someone under the microscope, maybe dwell on something we see in them (us!) that we don’t like. But what if we observe as if from afar, with compassion? With curiosity? With support just because someone else is human and deserves it? What if we say to ourselves, “I deserve success.”   Instead of comparing ourselves and looking at an accomplished someone with a volatile combination of awe and jealousy, what if we said, “Thank you. Thank you for showing me the way. For proving it can be done. I am happy to see you making change. We are the same. I can make change too. Thank you for shining a light on what is possible for me if I will only CHOOSE it.” And then . . . what if we choose it? This is the two-fold #30DaysofQ2 challenge for today: Spend time choosing it and Practice learning and teaching what you need to do to inspire others....

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Sharing Happiness

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A dear friend sent me a card with this quote: “Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle cannot be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” — attributed to Buddha Sharing happiness, even it’s smallest form of a smile, is an important but not urgent action–and can make all the difference in the world. I smile at strangers all the time. Walking to the grocery store, for example. It’s incredible how many people are (a) not smiling at all and (b) not smiling back–or even looking at others as they make their way through the world. Maybe it’s fear, avoidance, or just plain not being in the present. . . Smiling takes so little time and effort. So why is it challenging? Like Chrissie Hynde sings, “I got a smile / for everyone I meet / as long as you don’t try dragging my bay / or droppin no bomb on my street.” (Those might not be the right lyrics but that’s how I sing ’em and I how I live.) When you are happy, share some of it by smiling. It’s contagious. There are bigger ways (of course) to share happiness, which can be Quadrant 2 activities. How are you sharing happiness in big and small ways? Thanks for following the #30DaysofQ2. See below for...

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Learning While Teaching (or Presenting)

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Somewhere along the way I got the idea that I had to know everything about a particular topic to “teach” or “present on” it. And I never considered myself an expert on anything because my definition of expert meant “someone who knows everything.” Logically, I know it is impossible to know everything. That I should not hold myself to this standard. And yet here I am, down-playing my accumulated knowledge and experiences because I am not omnipotent. Am I alone in falling into this trap? The beautiful thing about life is we get to learn. Constantly. And hopefully be changed by that learning. I have–and continue to be given–lessons that I want to share in order to help others. There is never a shortage of lessons and knowledge, until we die. The challenge? Overcoming the feeling that just because there is so much to learn does not mean we are any less capable of teaching what we know. We don’t have to have it all figured out. Beating ourselves up about not being perfect or an “expert” is a waste of time. I think I’ve said that before and it’s because I need to learn it, too. So this is a real meta post. I’m actually teaching something and learning it at the same time. And I hope you’ll join me on this journey and in embracing the position as learner-and-teacher without guilt or fear of being an imposter. Bonus: All the leaders I admire have humility as a trait. I know that’s not something everyone agrees on as being valuable. But for me, I think it’s important. Being open to the idea that there is more to learn as a leader IS being humble–and is a good practice. My #30DaysofQ2 important but not urgent action for today:  Live happily in the intersection and trust it is where I can do the most good. Update on March 22, 2108: If you’re interested in topics like these, I invite you to follow me on Medium where I am more active these days–although “active” is a relative...

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